The idea for this “50 signs a girl likes you” came all of a sudden when my brother texted me asking stupid things about his crush.
Jimmy-in-love: Sis, I feel like Liz often makes an excuse to touch my arm. Sometimes, she is just too close. Does she like me?
Jimmy-in-love: She likes all the stuff on my Facebook. Even the dumb pic you tagged me last year. Anyway, does she like me?
Jimmy-in-love: bla bla…
Phanie-know-all: Congrat, bro. She is spelling it out that she has crushed on you. Just go ahead and take the chance
I wonder why men always miss such visible signs. When a girl likes you, she can hardly hide it. If you are still confused, these things can answer how to know if a girl loves you secretly.
50 Signs A Girl Likes You from Her Body Language
She is too close than necessary
Back then, when I was interested in a boy, I often found myself around him for one or another reason (sometimes for no reason.) I tried to make more eye contact, then looked down, and met his eyes again. At the same time, I also moved or leaned toward him to get us closer.
I bet other girls do the same thing if she is attracted to you.
She touches you a lot
Besides getting nearby, the girl even puts her finger several times on you without a clear purpose. When you make jokes, she might tap or touch slightly on your shoulder or your arm. She wants to tell you that she is comfortable enough for further physical intimacy.
If she is more confident or experienced, she even gives endless playful touch or even hugs. She tries to feel your skin and test your reaction.
She plays with her hair a lot
Hair-touching might have a couple of meanings, but most of the time, she is trying to draw your attention.
My girls and I all agree that twirling the hair and wrapping tendrils around fingers look both innocent and seductive. That way, men often get their eyes to our face, skin, or neck and stay longer.
When eyes meet, I will give the boy a smile or prolonged eye contact.
She raises the tone of voice
You find your crush with a group of her friends and join up. Then, she suddenly starts talking with a higher pitch. She even becomes the social butterfly who leads the conversation.
For sure, she wants to steal and control your attention.
She finds your eyes more frequently, then hides
Even when she does not talk to you directly, she looks toward you as she wonders whether you also look at her. Then, your eyes meet.
She might smile at you and start a conversation. Otherwise, she turns away immediately. She tries to hide. After a while, she can’t help but take her eyes on you, and yours meet again.
Her pupils get somewhat bigger
On having eye contact, try to investigate if her eyes get bigger.
Studies prove that the pupils get 45% bigger when we see something we are interested in. Otherwise, it is because of the light or environment nearby. To be sure this is not a misleading signal, you should find her eyes several times.
She acts cute or sexy
When a girl falls to you, she will scatter her charming on you. She can be sweet or sexy – it depends on her personality and your favorite style.
She smiles and giggles to show her interest in your conversation and that she likes your company. She shows off her feminine traits, say, her waist, her wrist, or her neck.
If she wants to be sexy, she leans her boops against you or shows her beautiful hair or legs.
She blushed all of a sudden
She looks at you, and her cheeks burst into red suspiciously. Then, she turns away. Or when you tell somethings to catch her attention, she also blushes and smiles.
She at least has some different feelings for you rather than other friends.
She is jealous of girls around you
No girl likes her crushed to smile, talk, or act too much friendly with other girls.
Yep, it will not be evident that she throws a tantrum. However, she will try to grab back your attention and energy. She also gives other girls mean looks (you can be sure at a girl’s jealous face.
She licks her lips
Make sure it is not because of the sweltering day! Then you can interpret her act for either of two meanings. Sometimes, both.
On the one hand, she wants to seduce you to her sexy lips. And, she might even be ready for a kiss. On the other hand, she is nervous and shy. Such an unusual feeling shows she is more interested in you than others.
Know If A Girl Likes You Over A Conversation
Her body language can tell much about her feeling for you. To be sure, however, you had better step forward and start a conversation.
She sets her smartphone aside
A girl who pays attention to her phone rather than to your face might have a little interest in you. Otherwise, she will leave the phone in one place to listen and talk to you in turn.
She can still check her messages or calls sometimes but not too frequently.
She compliments you a bit lot
She laughs happily at your joke. She stands for your opinion in the group. She encourages and cheers with you. Or she wants you are successful.
Something repeated, such as “you’re great!” “how a funny jokes” or “I share your opinion.”
She continuously reminders she is single
If a girl tells you she has not had a boyfriend, it might mean nothing.
She keeps repeating it a couple of times during the conversation; then I can say it for sure that she is opening an opportunity: She is available for a relationship.
Don’t be dull and make her wait so long, or else, she will close the door for you.
She opens up about her feeling or her life
She is ready to share with you her personal issues, then congrats bro, she likes you or at least trusts you more than others. She is seeking security from you.
If you like her too, cheer her up and try to help with her problems if possible.
She talks about your interest, also
Girls loving you have a bunch of ways to know what you like or dislike. Then, she will talk about it, saying she fancies it too.
If you like The Avenger or the similar, for example, she might even invite you to the movie theater. Who knows? Just take the chance.
How to Know If a Girl Likes You over Text?
There are signs a girl likes you through a direct conversation as above. However, what if she is too shy or you two are in a group conversation? Some signs are not very clear and even misleading.
That time, look at her texting. It is more individual to figure out what she is truly feeling.
She texts you frequently
Believe it or not,
The frequency of her texting is even more important than its content. She often texts you first for whatever reasons, sometimes to tell you a funny story. There is a good chance that she is into you.
She replies to your message immediately
It seems that she always has time for you. Even when you know she is out with friends, or she is busy at work, she answers your text right away.
She even wants to lengthen the conversation with some stories at work or the like.
She sends a text with lots of emojis
Check for the emotion icons. Are they a string of heart-themed emojis such as lips, kissy faces, or adorable puppies? She might send you memes as well.
Yes, she wants to show you her humorous and that she likes you so much.
She texts about your life or interests
The choice of message topics can also tell if a girl likes you or not.
If the text is functional about work or school assignments without any intention of expansion, then she has little interest in you. If it is near about your personal life or love, then she digs you for sure.
She suddenly ignores you
When you are used to her texting every night, she is unexpectedly out of your sight at school or work. She replies to your message occasionally with less emojis or cute words.
There are two cases: She is bored with you, or she wants you to take more steps toward her. If it is the latter, act fast, or she will ignore you forever.
Does The Girl at Work Like You?
Most girls react to a similar way when she crushes on you. Say, she becomes touchy-feely and makes more eye contact. However, your coworker at work might be more carefully concealed for many reasons.
She stands for your opinion
She often compliments your contributions at work. Even when you are against many people, you find her stand by your side.
If it is not about work, she still pays lots of attention to your jokes. She laughs louder than others to indicate that she feels you are hilarious.
She asks for your help when possible
Even if you two take different responsibilities or in separate departments, you might find her around you a lot calling for advice or assistance. And, the work stuff is often too much complicated.
The truth is, she seeks closeness with you and wants to share more time together.
Other colleagues say to you that she likes you
Working environment makes it easy to spread rumors and gossips. And more than two people tell you she is into you. There is a good chance that she does like you.
On the one hand, coworkers notice if she tries to flirt with you or there is apparent chemistry between you two.
On the other hand, she might let the gossips burst on purposes.
She asks your personal questions
Your conversation might start with work stuff; then it turns out to be more intimacy with personal questions about your hobbies or even your current relationship. It can end up with “What are you doing this weekend?” and a date.
She invites you some fun after work – Just the two
When it is time to test the waters, your female colleague might make a move to invite you to a house party or the like. The first time, it might include others. If you show her you have an interest in her too, she might come as for a private date.
Now Can You Answer Yourself, “Does She Like You?”
After my reveal on “50 signs a girl like you”, I bet that you have already had an answer. Even that girl falls for you; she might be too shy or too arrogant to say it out loud.
If you like her back, take a step toward and be more proactive.